Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Looking for Love? Find Love in the Right Place

Most people still want love. No matter how you tell your friends that you are better alone, you still crave to love and be loved. To hold and be held. No matter how much we lie to ourselves we will always want that fairy tale. We are born to love .

The frustrations we go through to get our soul mates is so that we can realize how important they are to us. Most of the things we really want can't be achieved easily. We must work on them and fail severally until we win. The most important thing is not the end, but the journey.

To find love, you must learn to love yourself, to love your company and have a healthy relationship with yourself. It can be very hard being alone, especially when you are ready to share your heart with someone else.

Nobody wants to be alone and worse, when you are alone you tend to think you are the only one. So go out there and meet more singles. Relationships are a game of numbers. You must have heard this cliche, especially among girls, you kiss a thousand frogs before you meet the prince. Even though that doesn't mean kissing everyone you see in the name of looking for love, you should try to give anybody with a serious and genuine need for a partner a chance.

Settling for less is not an option. We all end up regretting later and wondering whether weren't better off alone. That doesn't not mean you should choosy either. Life is about avoiding the extremes and following the middle path. Not being completely sane (love never is) and not falling over the edge without a parachute, going bonkers.

If you have money I would recommend going out there and meeting as many people as possible.  Social events offer you an opportunity to meet new people who are looking for someone like you. Weddings, musical events, movies, alumni get together etc. Where two or more are gathered together, love is never far.

For those who don't have enough money to attend events, and can't find enough free events or gate crash, looking for love online is the newest thing. Everyone has done it, especially on Facebook. Now you need to cast your eyes father and graduate to a real dating site, where people go solely to look for mates. I would recommend a good dating site bout most cost lots of money. The best free site I know is Richsweetheart.com: Free dating for rich people. It's not just for the rich in monetary terms, if you are rich in love, romance, bedminton skills etc. so many other rich men and women are looking for you to share. Tak sometime and try your chances there, you won't regret.

The most important thing about finding the right relationship is never to stop trying. So keep hunting, it's supposed to be fun.

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