There is never a better feeling than that of feeling loved and appreciated. Love is the best thing that could ever happen to our lives and nobody needs to be alone. We feel better when we know that out there, somebody is thinking of us, somebody cares for and best of all we at least we have somebody to run to. Kenyan are not to be left behind. I am sure there are so many Kenyans out there who would give anything to find someone for themselves.
I have some few tips that should you find that someone.
1.Stop Being Needy- Love has a way of finding people who are not looking for it. Most of the people who are looking for love tend to be desperate and would do anything to land a mate. If you never knew, this can be a complete turn off. Try to make friends, have fun, live life like nothing is wrong. Love will find you. Don't feel like simply because for the last year you have been all alone, you are scary or abnormal. It's O.K to be single.
2.Get out there and meet people-This is the easiest way to meet people like you. If you spend time alone watching television at home you might never find your special one. Reason? They don't live in your living room. Unless you are willing to spend time outdoors, finding love might always be a fantasy. Alternatively, for those of you who love the indoors so much, take some time to play Hot or Not profile matchmaking on our free dating site. It will help you meet some hotties while you are rating them.
3.Pick up is a game of numbers- You approach ten women out there and manage to nail only one. Disappointing? Not really, you have better luck than others. The key thing here is to always keep on trying. If you are doing something and you are not getting results then use another method. If you ever feel pained or like giving up, just remember it's natures way of telling you that you are doing it wrong. Change tactics. Remember no matter how ugly, stupid, short, skinny...(the list is endless), you will always find your match. Focus on your strengths and build your confidence.
4.Think of what you are looking for in a soul mate-If you don't know what you are looking for, you might never find it. If you have to, write down the characteristics you are looking for. This will help you know them once you meet them. Remember you are more likely to be compatible with somebody who shares your likes, dislikes. If you have interests in similar activities the better.
5.Be confident and bold-Being shy only works for women. For men confidence is attractive. Confidence, Control and challenge, three male traits that make you irresistible to women. Ever heard of cocky and funny? Works magic. You can read David De'Angelo's Double Your Dating or The System and discover why cocky and funny is simply magic. If you have self esteem issues, work on them. People usually walk over people who let them to. A fact of life. If you set high standards in life, you will always get better and better things.
6.Look for other avenues to find love-So many people are finding love online. Sign up for dating sites and try your luck out there. With 17% percent of people who use the wide world web being single chances are that you can easily find your soul mate. In Kenya we have Radio stations that dedicate some of their shows to helping single people find love. Try that too.
7. Always remember to live the life you love and be yourself. You will be more able to achieve success this way.
All the best in your endeavors.
I have some few tips that should you find that someone.
1.Stop Being Needy- Love has a way of finding people who are not looking for it. Most of the people who are looking for love tend to be desperate and would do anything to land a mate. If you never knew, this can be a complete turn off. Try to make friends, have fun, live life like nothing is wrong. Love will find you. Don't feel like simply because for the last year you have been all alone, you are scary or abnormal. It's O.K to be single.
2.Get out there and meet people-This is the easiest way to meet people like you. If you spend time alone watching television at home you might never find your special one. Reason? They don't live in your living room. Unless you are willing to spend time outdoors, finding love might always be a fantasy. Alternatively, for those of you who love the indoors so much, take some time to play Hot or Not profile matchmaking on our free dating site. It will help you meet some hotties while you are rating them.
3.Pick up is a game of numbers- You approach ten women out there and manage to nail only one. Disappointing? Not really, you have better luck than others. The key thing here is to always keep on trying. If you are doing something and you are not getting results then use another method. If you ever feel pained or like giving up, just remember it's natures way of telling you that you are doing it wrong. Change tactics. Remember no matter how ugly, stupid, short, skinny...(the list is endless), you will always find your match. Focus on your strengths and build your confidence.
4.Think of what you are looking for in a soul mate-If you don't know what you are looking for, you might never find it. If you have to, write down the characteristics you are looking for. This will help you know them once you meet them. Remember you are more likely to be compatible with somebody who shares your likes, dislikes. If you have interests in similar activities the better.
5.Be confident and bold-Being shy only works for women. For men confidence is attractive. Confidence, Control and challenge, three male traits that make you irresistible to women. Ever heard of cocky and funny? Works magic. You can read David De'Angelo's Double Your Dating or The System and discover why cocky and funny is simply magic. If you have self esteem issues, work on them. People usually walk over people who let them to. A fact of life. If you set high standards in life, you will always get better and better things.
6.Look for other avenues to find love-So many people are finding love online. Sign up for dating sites and try your luck out there. With 17% percent of people who use the wide world web being single chances are that you can easily find your soul mate. In Kenya we have Radio stations that dedicate some of their shows to helping single people find love. Try that too.
7. Always remember to live the life you love and be yourself. You will be more able to achieve success this way.
All the best in your endeavors.
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